Many men think that once their girlfriend ends the relationship that all is lost. It may be good for you to know that this is not always the case. Very few women can turn their feelings off that quickly and there are some key patterns of behaviour that you should be aware of if you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back.
Take things slowly and appreciate the time out that your ex girlfriend is giving you. Look on it positively and use it constructively. Work out what went wrong and strive to make the appropriate changes. You will have a good idea of the issues that were causing problems and these are the issues you need to address. Your ex girlfriend will want to see that you have acknowledged the problems and are willing to work on them.
Do not wallow though you will undoubtedly feel like it. Your ex girlfriend doesn’t want you to lie around the house missing her, or calling her up to beg her to take you back. The best thing you can do at this stage is get on your feet, go out and try to enjoy yourself and basically pick up singledom where you left it.Not only will this serve to make your ex girlfriend curious as to how you’re getting along but it will also make you feel better anyway.
When you do make contact again, after a reasonable length of time, take things very slowly avoiding all talk of a reconciliation. Talk to her about all the things you’ve been doing and any exciting plans you may. Strike the right balance between not seeming totally broken but also not appearing deliriously happy that you’re single again.
Whilst getting your ex girlfriend back cannot be guaranteed by following these simple behavioural techniques you will give yourself the best possible chance.
Listen, you can either sit around and hope that she will take you back OR you can start heading in the right direction, today, and get your girlfriend back a.s.a.p.
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Wednesday
Why Being Different Is Sometimes Good
It’s quite strange actually, when a person is very different from the majority of people are them, they may wish to be similar to everyone else and when a person is similar to everyone else, they may wish to be different and stand out from the crowd.
They both have their advantages and disadvantages, however, being different is a LOT different than you may think.
You probably haven’t noticed it but nearly everyone is the same nowadays, I mean, obviously everyone has their own unique personality and appearance, however, they’re basically all the same.
Society has little “cliques”, groups, whatever you want to call them, there’s the 9 - 5er’s, the Goths, the sports buffs, the drunks, the stay-at-home moms, the business men and so on.
Each group may be slightly different from another group (or a lot different) and each individual may be slightly different from another individual, however, how often do you come across someone who really makes you step back and think “wow, that’s a really unique and interesting person”?
My guess would be that it doesn’t happen to you very often.
Guess what, it doesn’t happen to me very often either.
So, what do you think happens when someone like that does come along?
I’ll tell you what happens, people stop and take notice, they are genuinely interested, they know that this person is not the same boring, every day guy like everyone else they know.
How does this apply to you?
Well, although you may not like to hear this, I’m going to tell you anyway, since the break up, your ex has likely been considering (or maybe worse) getting back into the dating world.
The good news is that most of the guys she will likely meet will be the same boring, every day guys I mentioned above.
You can show her that you’re not like that, you can be the different, stand out from the crowd type of guy that people take notice of.
There’s no specific way to do this, I mean, it’s really all about just being different from everyone else, in small but noticeable ways.
Of course, there’s a good different and a bad different but if you have any common sense then you should be able to easily recognise what is good and what id bad.
Be the kind of person that women take notice of, are interested in and want to be around. Don’t try to be like everyone else, otherwise you may just fade into the blur of boring, every day people.
They both have their advantages and disadvantages, however, being different is a LOT different than you may think.
You probably haven’t noticed it but nearly everyone is the same nowadays, I mean, obviously everyone has their own unique personality and appearance, however, they’re basically all the same.
Society has little “cliques”, groups, whatever you want to call them, there’s the 9 - 5er’s, the Goths, the sports buffs, the drunks, the stay-at-home moms, the business men and so on.
Each group may be slightly different from another group (or a lot different) and each individual may be slightly different from another individual, however, how often do you come across someone who really makes you step back and think “wow, that’s a really unique and interesting person”?
My guess would be that it doesn’t happen to you very often.
Guess what, it doesn’t happen to me very often either.
So, what do you think happens when someone like that does come along?
I’ll tell you what happens, people stop and take notice, they are genuinely interested, they know that this person is not the same boring, every day guy like everyone else they know.
How does this apply to you?
Well, although you may not like to hear this, I’m going to tell you anyway, since the break up, your ex has likely been considering (or maybe worse) getting back into the dating world.
The good news is that most of the guys she will likely meet will be the same boring, every day guys I mentioned above.
You can show her that you’re not like that, you can be the different, stand out from the crowd type of guy that people take notice of.
There’s no specific way to do this, I mean, it’s really all about just being different from everyone else, in small but noticeable ways.
Of course, there’s a good different and a bad different but if you have any common sense then you should be able to easily recognise what is good and what id bad.
Be the kind of person that women take notice of, are interested in and want to be around. Don’t try to be like everyone else, otherwise you may just fade into the blur of boring, every day people.
How To Increase Confidence
Now, you may be wondering why I’m telling you about things that may not seem to be specifically about getting an ex girlfriend back, well, the reason for that is because, as I mentioned before, a big part of the whole dating world and relationship area is simple attraction.
Attraction is often the starting point (when a man first sees a woman he likes) and is very important, if not vital, to the success of the relationship, I mean, it’s pretty obvious when you think about it, would you stay with a women for years on end if you weren’t attracted to her?
I would highly doubt it and I would highly doubt that a woman would stay with a man she wasn’t attracted to.
That’s why, in my opinion, it’s very important to work on building attraction and that’s what this report is mostly about, increasing the attraction levels between you and your ex so that she WANTS to get back with you.
One factor of attraction is confidence, it can be very powerful, in fact, one of the things that is nearly always considered an important quality, in men, by women, is confidence.
Women like men to be confident in themselves, I mean, if you don’t believe in yourself, if you aren’t confident in yourself and your abilities then why should a woman be confident in you.
Now, this is actually quite a common problem for men, a lot of guys just simply aren’t very confident in themselves, the good news is that it is something that you can work on.
In the section about increasing attraction, I already mentioned some of the things you can do that will also help with your confidence, such as dressing nicely, looking good and working out.
The first two are very simple, the better you look, the better you feel. This can sometimes be as simple as just getting a shower, shave and putting on a nice shirt and new pair of jeans, sometimes that’s all it takes to look good and feel good about yourself.
Working out is one of my favourites, I think it is certainly something you should consider and don’t think that you have to go to a big fancy gym three days a week and pay a hefty membership fee to do it.
You can work out at home just doing things like push ups, sit ups, running or whatever it is you feel comfortable doing.
This is something that is beyond the scope of this report, however, there are lots of great workout/exercise programs that you can get and use to start getting into better shape.
Confidence can be very powerful, when a woman sees a man that is confidence in himself, it nearly always gives him a big advantage over not being confident in himself (may seem obvious but needs to be made clear).
Work on building confidence and it should make not only getting your ex back easier but a lot of other things in your life.
Attraction is often the starting point (when a man first sees a woman he likes) and is very important, if not vital, to the success of the relationship, I mean, it’s pretty obvious when you think about it, would you stay with a women for years on end if you weren’t attracted to her?
I would highly doubt it and I would highly doubt that a woman would stay with a man she wasn’t attracted to.
That’s why, in my opinion, it’s very important to work on building attraction and that’s what this report is mostly about, increasing the attraction levels between you and your ex so that she WANTS to get back with you.
One factor of attraction is confidence, it can be very powerful, in fact, one of the things that is nearly always considered an important quality, in men, by women, is confidence.
Women like men to be confident in themselves, I mean, if you don’t believe in yourself, if you aren’t confident in yourself and your abilities then why should a woman be confident in you.
Now, this is actually quite a common problem for men, a lot of guys just simply aren’t very confident in themselves, the good news is that it is something that you can work on.
In the section about increasing attraction, I already mentioned some of the things you can do that will also help with your confidence, such as dressing nicely, looking good and working out.
The first two are very simple, the better you look, the better you feel. This can sometimes be as simple as just getting a shower, shave and putting on a nice shirt and new pair of jeans, sometimes that’s all it takes to look good and feel good about yourself.
Working out is one of my favourites, I think it is certainly something you should consider and don’t think that you have to go to a big fancy gym three days a week and pay a hefty membership fee to do it.
You can work out at home just doing things like push ups, sit ups, running or whatever it is you feel comfortable doing.
This is something that is beyond the scope of this report, however, there are lots of great workout/exercise programs that you can get and use to start getting into better shape.
Confidence can be very powerful, when a woman sees a man that is confidence in himself, it nearly always gives him a big advantage over not being confident in himself (may seem obvious but needs to be made clear).
Work on building confidence and it should make not only getting your ex back easier but a lot of other things in your life.
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