It’s quite strange actually, when a person is very different from the majority of people are them, they may wish to be similar to everyone else and when a person is similar to everyone else, they may wish to be different and stand out from the crowd.
They both have their advantages and disadvantages, however, being different is a LOT different than you may think.
You probably haven’t noticed it but nearly everyone is the same nowadays, I mean, obviously everyone has their own unique personality and appearance, however, they’re basically all the same.
Society has little “cliques”, groups, whatever you want to call them, there’s the 9 - 5er’s, the Goths, the sports buffs, the drunks, the stay-at-home moms, the business men and so on.
Each group may be slightly different from another group (or a lot different) and each individual may be slightly different from another individual, however, how often do you come across someone who really makes you step back and think “wow, that’s a really unique and interesting person”?
My guess would be that it doesn’t happen to you very often.
Guess what, it doesn’t happen to me very often either.
So, what do you think happens when someone like that does come along?
I’ll tell you what happens, people stop and take notice, they are genuinely interested, they know that this person is not the same boring, every day guy like everyone else they know.
How does this apply to you?
Well, although you may not like to hear this, I’m going to tell you anyway, since the break up, your ex has likely been considering (or maybe worse) getting back into the dating world.
The good news is that most of the guys she will likely meet will be the same boring, every day guys I mentioned above.
You can show her that you’re not like that, you can be the different, stand out from the crowd type of guy that people take notice of.
There’s no specific way to do this, I mean, it’s really all about just being different from everyone else, in small but noticeable ways.
Of course, there’s a good different and a bad different but if you have any common sense then you should be able to easily recognise what is good and what id bad.
Be the kind of person that women take notice of, are interested in and want to be around. Don’t try to be like everyone else, otherwise you may just fade into the blur of boring, every day people.